‘Without Burying in Holes’

A sample from Book 6

 Without Burying in Holes
  (Sweet Man)
  
 love outweighs libido
 it offers room to grow
 in each other an outflow
  
 keeping
separate-together scenario
 each doesn't forgo
their individual echo
 maintaining meaningful amigos
  
 never each other to outgrow
 encouraging each's ego
 −a constant expanding
each's manifesto
 −see how high
they each can go
 without one thing to owe
 except coffee together
on a patio
  
 having sincere trust
whatever way they row
 enjoying the rainbow
kisses under a mistletoe
 without doubting shadows
  
 mutual integrity
each to show
 understanding
each other's lingo
 without a need
for macho
  
 love is willingness
to lose control
 −pride swallowed
letting it all go
 opening the peephole
total envelope
 letting every secret flow
 exploring every shadow
of each's very soul
  
 keeping it real
with or without clothes
 living life with gusto
  
 throwing away
the microscope
 love allows feelings to roll
 in and out−
allowing each to stroll
 without digging holes
  
 love's traveling different roads
 enjoying solo
 without worry
of an undertow
  
 it's knowing
when to let go
 without losing self-worth
 apart...even though
 wanting the best
keeping each other whole
  
 love's a friendship stroll
 hands to hold
   without burying in holes

[Note: This is another bit of advice that I didn’t take. And I gave it to myself! Lose the microscope! The best advice you’ll ever get!]

(October 23, 2013)—When you fall in love then lose, you begin to fully understand what true love is. You don’t shatter each other’s pride to satisfy your own. You don’t hurt each other on purpose.

In divorce, what hurts the most is thinking that you thought you had that, but you were wrong in so many ways. That’s where ‘Without Burying in Holes’ comes from. When you find true love, how do you know? Twice in my life I thought I found it and in both, I was wrong.

Love is complicated. True love should be simple, should fall into place so naturally that you don’t even realize the journey until you’re there, all mixed up in the emotion. It’s really hard to separate the heart from the head when, by nature, you are a romantic.

Yes, I’m a romantic in so many ways. Naive is a good word to describe me. I guess life would be boring without that, and I don’t want boring. I like the fire. Love the skin you’re in.

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