Forgiveness. It is not just about forgiving in general, it’s about all the little parts that go along with hurt…anger, resentfulness. It’s setting ego and pride aside. It’s not bowing down. It’s living up to God’s standards. It’s what truth is all about.
23, 2019)―Tests. My son and his wife are beginning a great big one. Last night,
I got a call from him telling me, after being broke down on an interstate last
night for eight hours, a car plowed into the back of his camper and caught
fire. Him and his wife and their dog was able to escape before the fire
consumed their camper and truck. You see they are travelers and work on the
road, so that was their home.
called, I tried to call my daughter. She’s still not talking to me again. So, I
called my dad, then called my baby son. He said something that brought anger up
in me. He told me his dad already called him. That meant that my older son had
called my ex-husband before calling me. I was hurt. Then this morning my older
sister called. I just needed someone to rant to I guess. I told her I that my
daughter wasn’t talking to me again and it hurt. I blamed the ex for changing
her heart. I called him a narcissist and said he was evil. It didn’t take long
for her to get off the phone with me.
Why am I
telling you? Because I have to. Stay. I will explain.
Guilt fell on me after both of those
conversations. I shouldn’t still be feeling this. But I’m hurt still because of
how my family put me after the ex. I talked with God last night. I prayed for
my son and his wife.
spoke with my sister, I got my coffee and sat down and opened the Bible. The following Scriptures was the first
page I saw. I had not been to these pages since 2007. There are red marks all
over this page. Those marks are in bold within the passages.
I was scolded! Not by God this time, but by Jesus!
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Actions, In Spite of Resentment, Still Say LOVE
(April 30, 2019)―Resentment. I’ve written a lot about resentment in Book 12. It’s part of the codependency deal. A codependent will give and give without thinking of themselves and then they begin to resent it because they carry the expectation of being given in return. Of course, the given in return doesn’t happen most of the time. A codependent is a bit fucked up in a sense because of this expectation.
I’ve written many poems about letting go and having zero expectations. That’s because it’s part of the fight to break codependency. I’ve been judged a lot when it comes to my writings by those I love. They really don’t understand the process. My writings are about feelings or emotions in the moment during this struggle of healing. When I read some of it, it hurts me, too. But that is the whole point…writing every single feeling/emotion down in order for myself and others to see ourselves and understand what we are feeling. If that makes sense.
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Anger: How Changing This One Emotion Can Change Your Entire Life!
(April 27, 2019)―There are 2 large garbage cans that came with the house I live in. When we first moved in, they were in the corner of the garage. The side where I park my car. My car door opens up to the wall side of the garage. I have boxes stacked in there, which I never unpacked also on the side where I park my car. About a month ago, we were told by the landlord that we had to clean up the backyard. After the winter, the pine needles and pine cones had added up. So, in order to make my job a little easier, I moved the garbage cans to the side of the house, inside the metal gate. Since, they were out of the way in the garage, I moved over some boxes, which made getting out of my car easier.
On garbage day this past week, the sweet man brought in the garbage cans from the road. I was grateful, except he put them back in the garage, moving the boxes back to where they were, which made getting out of my car difficult. Anger. I got out of my car. Yanked the garaged cans back outside and commenced to grabbing some empty boxes from his side of the garage and scattered them behind his vehicle. Why? At the time, and when he questioned me, to show him what being inconvenienced feels like.
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You Deal and Accept the Physical Damage Caused By Narcissism’s Carelessness
(April 24, 21019)—I was sent to a heart specialist today. Although I’m 50, I’m always the youngest in the room when it comes to things like this. (I started saying this phrase back in 2013 when I returned to the VA. I was always the youngest in the room back then.) So, I’m sitting there going through Scriptures, keeping my mind occupied. I didn’t want to think about why I was there. Then I got called to the back. A slew of tests were ordered, including a monitor, which I’ll have to wear for a week.
I was there because an EKG came back abnormal. It’s not the first time. The very first time, I’m sitting in my therapist’s office and she told me I had a rash all over my skin. I tan so I didn’t realize it. The EKG read Sudden Death at the top. In the course of several months, I had four Sudden Death EKGs! I can’t even tell you what that does to a person’s mind. I had all kinds of thoughts racing: Did I do enough? Will my kids ever forgive me? Will I finish my books in time? Etc., etc.
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Discovering the Hidden Treasure in Yourself!
(April 17, 2019)―Life Is Preserved By Righteousness. Righteousness is Obedience. Recognizing God’s Healing Power. Knowing Forgiveness is Available. Forgiveness Is A Must In Self and In World Peace.
Parable of Hidden Treasure—The kingdom of heaven is like treasure hidden in a field. When a man found it, he hid it again, and then in his joy went and sold all he had and bought that field.—Matthew 13:44
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